Are you confident in yourself? Well if not, you will not be the only one. If you met someone lacking in confidence, would you disregard their composure and assume they are talented and skillful? Or would you go along with their own demeanor and doubt their ability? Probably choice No. 2. In order for others to show confidence in you, the first requirement is you must be confident in yourself. No one knows you better than yourself; so if you appear confident about something, others will think the same because how could they know more about you. So show some faith in yourself and others will follow.